My Top 5 Book Recommendations
- Andrea Pastoor
- Jul 27
- 1 min read
A shorter, personal list — the books I find myself recommending most often, across a range of topics.

1. No Bad Parts — Richard Schwartz
Written by the creator of Internal Family Systems (IFS), this book invites you to meet every part of yourself — even the ones you've judged or tried to silence — with curiosity and compassion.
2. Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle — Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski
A clear, research-backed look at why stress gets "stuck" in the body and what it actually takes to complete the stress cycle — practical relief for anyone feeling depleted.
3. When Love Hurts — Jill Cory & Karen McAndless-Davis
A compassionate, women-centred guide to understanding abuse in relationships, blending research, decades of counselling experience, and real stories to help readers trust their own judgment.
4. The Wisdom of Your Body — Hillary McBride
An invitation to reconnect with the body as a source of wisdom rather than something to fix or manage — especially grounding for anyone healing from trauma or disconnection.
5. For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity — Liz Plank
A thoughtful exploration of how rigid ideas of masculinity harm men and the people around them, and what a healthier, more connected version of masculinity can look like.

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